[arm] don't set MONO_ARCH_SOFT_DEBUG_SUPPORTED on android cross compiling
follow up fix for https://github.com/mono/mono/pull/4956
this breaks the cross compiler on windows for android:
```
[9:07:36] /bin/sh ../../libtool --tag=CC --mode=compile /Users/builder/android-toolchain/mxe/bin/i686-w64-mingw32.static-gcc -DHAVE_CONFIG_H -I. -I/U sers/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/external/mono/mono/mini -I../.. -DWINVER=0x0600 -D_WIN32_WINNT=0x0600 -D_WIN32_IE=0x0501 -D_UNICODE -DUNICODE - DWIN32_THREADS -DFD_SETSIZE=1024 -g -Wall -Wunused -Wmissing-prototypes -Wmissing-declarations -Wstrict-prototypes -Wmissing-prototypes -Wnested-externs -Wpointer-arith -Wno -cast-qual -Wwrite-strings -Wno-switch -Wno-switch-enum -Wno-unused-value -Wno-attributes -Wno-format-zero-length -D__ARM_EABI__ -DARM_FPU_VFP=1 -DNO_UNALIGNED_ACCESS -I/User s/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/external/mono -I/Users/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/external/mono/eglib/src -I../../eglib /src -I/Users/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/build-tools/mono-runtimes/obj/Release//llvm/installed-win32/usr/include -DNDEBUG -D__NO_CTYPE_INLINE -D_ GNU_SOURCE -D__STDC_CONSTANT_MACROS -D__STDC_FORMAT_MACROS -D__STDC_LIMIT_MACROS -DLLVM_API_VERSION=4 -O -I../arch/arm -fvisibility=hidden -DXAMARIN_PRODUCT_VERSION=0 -static -static-libgcc -std=gnu99 -fno-strict-aliasing -fwrapv -DMONO_DLL_EXPORT -Wno-unused-but-set-variable -g -Wall -Wunused -Wmissing-prototypes -Wmissing-declarations -Wstrict- prototypes -Wmissing-prototypes -Wnested-externs -Wpointer-arith -Wno-cast-qual -Wwrite-strings -Wno-switch -Wno-switch-enum -Wno-unused-value -Wno-attributes -Wno-format-ze ro-length -mno-tls-direct-seg-refs -Werror-implicit-function-declaration -MT libmini_la-mini-arm-gsharedvt.lo -MD -MP -MF .deps/libmini_la-mini-arm-gsharedvt.Tpo -c -o libmin i_la-mini-arm-gsharedvt.lo `test -f 'mini-arm-gsharedvt.c' || echo '/Users/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/external/mono/mono/mini/'`mini-arm-gsharedv t.c
[9:07:36] /Users/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/external/mono/mono/mini/mini-arm.c: In function 'mono_arch_is_single_step_event ':
[9:07:36] /Users/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/external/mono/mono/mini/mini-arm.c:7242:2: error: unknown type name 'siginfo_t'
[9:07:36] siginfo_t *sinfo = info;
[9:07:36] ^
[9:07:36] /Users/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/external/mono/mono/mini/mini-arm.c:7248:11: error: request for member 'si_addr' in something not a structure or union
[9:07:36] if (sinfo->si_addr >= ss_trigger_page && (guint8*)sinfo->si_addr <= (guint8*)ss_trigger_page + 128)
[9:07:36] ^
[9:07:36] /Users/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/external/mono/mono/mini/mini-arm.c:7248:57: error: request for member 'si_addr' in something not a structure or union
[9:07:36] if (sinfo->si_addr >= ss_trigger_page && (guint8*)sinfo->si_addr <= (guint8*)ss_trigger_page + 128)
[9:07:36] ^
[9:07:36] /Users/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/external/mono/mono/mini/mini-arm.c: In function 'mono_arch_is_breakpoint_event' :
[9:07:36] /Users/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/external/mono/mono/mini/mini-arm.c:7262:2: error: unknown type name 'siginfo_t'
[9:07:36] siginfo_t *sinfo = info;
[9:07:36] ^
[9:07:36] /Users/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/external/mono/mono/mini/mini-arm.c:7267:11: error: request for member 'si_signo ' in something not a structure or union
[9:07:36] if (sinfo->si_signo == DBG_SIGNAL) {
[9:07:36] ^
[9:07:36] /Users/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/external/mono/mono/mini/mini-arm.c:7269:12: error: request for member 'si_addr' in something not a structure or union
[9:07:36] if (sinfo->si_addr >= bp_trigger_page && (guint8*)sinfo->si_addr <= (guint8*)bp_trigger_page + 128)
[9:07:36] ^
[9:07:36] /Users/builder/data/lanes/5000/
ff452183/source/xamarin-android/external/mono/mono/mini/mini-arm.c:7269:58: error: request for member 'si_addr' in something not a structure or union
[9:07:36] if (sinfo->si_addr >= bp_trigger_page && (guint8*)sinfo->si_addr <= (guint8*)bp_trigger_page + 128)
```